Leadership Unlocked #5: Recognition Over Rules

The Problem With Rule-Heavy Leadership

Too many leaders think rules keep a company strong. They stack policies on top of policies. Thick handbooks are written but rarely read. Discipline becomes the focus instead of inspiration.

When rules dominate, culture weakens. Employees start to feel like children instead of professionals. Creativity dries up, loyalty fades, and the extra effort disappears. The result is a workplace that functions but never thrives.


Why Recognition Changes Everything

Recognition changes the equation. Instead of nitpicking mistakes, you highlight wins. Instead of waiting for failure, you reward progress. The focus shifts from control to growth.

I’ve worked in companies where recognition was almost nonexistent. You could work yourself to the bone and still hear nothing. Over time, people stopped giving their best. Why go the extra mile when nobody notices?

I’ve also seen what happens in cultures built around recognition. The difference is incredible. People arrive with energy. They take ownership. Ideas flow, and the business grows stronger.


A Lesson From My Own Journey

When I was building my trivia career, recognition became fuel. In the early days, I didn’t have big budgets or massive venues. What I did have was feedback. Every time someone said, “That was amazing,” or “You kept the room alive,” it pushed me forward.

Those moments built my confidence. They encouraged me to refine my craft, bring more energy, and make trivia nights unforgettable. Recognition did what no rulebook ever could—it inspired me to grow.

The same applies inside any organization. Employees who feel recognized always bring more to the table.


Leaders Inspire, Managers Control

This is where the line between leaders and managers shows itself. Managers enforce rules. Leaders inspire action. Managers point to policies. Leaders highlight progress and build vision.

Far too many organizations rely on managers pretending to be leaders. They hide behind regulations instead of connecting with people. Employees don’t leave because of rules alone—they leave because they feel invisible.

Recognition flips that script. People who feel seen don’t look for the exit.


The Strategy: How to Recognize Effectively

If you want recognition to be part of your leadership, start here:

  1. Catch small wins. Don’t wait for milestones. Acknowledge the everyday effort.

  2. Be specific. Instead of a generic “good job,” explain what worked.

  3. Make it public. Recognition in front of peers inspires the entire team.

  4. Balance praise with growth. Celebrate progress, then guide the next step.

Recognition costs nothing. In return, it delivers loyalty, creativity, and performance.


Why Recognition Builds Retention

Rules may keep order, but recognition creates pride. Employees who feel valued give more of themselves. Customers feel the difference. Profits follow.

I’ve watched companies collapse because they treated people like numbers. I’ve also seen businesses thrive when leaders focused on recognition. The difference is easy to see.


Conclusion: Leadership Unlocked #5 Is About Recognition

Leadership isn’t about enforcing every rule in the handbook. It’s about recognizing the people who bring your vision to life.

Recognition makes employees proud. Proud employees deliver better service. Better service builds loyalty. Loyalty drives profits.

Recognition fuels culture in a way rules never will.

Kid Corona – Keynote Speaker, National Trivia Host, Chief Border Agent of Slowjamastan

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